Be Single & Enjoy It!
Sad that you are home alone on a Saturday night, because your girlfriend is out on a date with her boyfriend? On top of that, is every single movie on TV about romance? And to top that off, it’s cat mating season and all you hear is the sound of cats moaning under your place right?
It is true having someone in your life is a wonderful thing, especially someone who understands you, and fills your life with love (& hot sex), but there is nothing worse than being with someone who isn’t right for you, and instead of pushing you forward to being the best version of yourself, holds you back .
“Single is not a status. It is a word that describes a person who is strong enough to live and enjoy life without depending on others.” – Prixie
The only way you can be happy with someone else, is if you can be happy on your own. Don’t go out there looking for a partner simply to fill some kind of void, be it loneliness, insecurity, or fear. Aim to achieve happiness on your own and to connect with yourself, before connecting with someone else.
So be single, and enjoy every minute of it. Enjoy the time with yourself, your friends, and surroundings. Being single gives you the chance to view the world from your own perspective, not from the effect of your lover’s perspective.
Also, you know what is sexy? Knowing what you want, being confident in your own skin, and not waiting for someone to come along and make you have a good time. So, be free spirited, open to experiences, to knowledge, and to growth. Learn that the most beautiful thing about being single is that you learn to enhance your virtues and improve your flaws, and the best part is that you’d be doing it for yourself not for someone else. So, take the time to figure out your goals and ambitions, concentrate on improving your mind and body, and become more self-reliant.
So what can you do on a Saturday night? Go for a late walk by the beach; go on a road trip with friends till sunrise, go to the movies (and remember it isn’t complete without an oversized box of popcorn and Pepsi!), go to events and meet different people and familiarize yourself with the different cultures around you, or take your dog for a walk! The world is filled with beauty, and the ability for you to enjoy it doesn’t disappear if you are single!
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